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Twelve Disciples of Jesus

The twelve disciples of Jesus, also known as the apostles, were his closest followers and played a significant role in his ministry. According to the New Testament of the Bible, the twelve disciples were:

Simon Peter: Peter was a fisherman and is considered the leader of the twelve. Jesus referred to him as "the rock" on which he would build his church.

Andrew: Andrew was Peter's brother and also a fisherman. He was one of the first disciples called by Jesus.

James, son of Zebedee: James was the brother of John. He, along with his brother, was known as one of the "Sons of Thunder."

John, son of Zebedee: John was the brother of James and often referred to as "the disciple whom Jesus loved." He played a significant role in the early Christian community.

Philip: Philip was from Bethsaida and was known for his logical and practical thinking. He was instrumental in bringing Nathanael to Jesus.

Bartholomew: Also known as Nathanael, Bartholomew was initially skeptical about Jesus but became a dedicated disciple.

Matthew: Matthew, also known as Levi, was a tax collector before becoming a disciple of Jesus. He is traditionally associated with writing the Gospel of Matthew.

Thomas: Thomas is best known for his doubts and insistence on seeing Jesus' wounds after his resurrection. He is often referred to as "Doubting Thomas."

James, son of Alphaeus: Also known as James the Less, he is sometimes identified as the brother of Matthew. Not much is known about him.

Thaddaeus: Also called Lebbaeus or Judas, not to be confused with Judas Iscariot. He is mentioned briefly in the Gospels but his role is not well-documented.

Simon the Zealot: Simon was called the Zealot, which suggests he may have been associated with the Jewish nationalist Zealot movement.

Judas Iscariot: Judas was the disciple who infamously betrayed Jesus to the religious authorities for thirty pieces of silver. His betrayal led to Jesus' crucifixion.

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12 Lessons from the book “Intentional Living"

12 lessons from the book “Intentional Living"

1. If you want to live a life that matters, don't start when you get good; start now so you become good.

2. Every time we choose action over ease  we develop an increasing level of self-worth, self-respect, and self-confidence.

3. We should never let what we cannot do keep us from doing what we can do. A passive life does not become a meaningful life. 

4. One of the great ironies of life is that; if give up your life, you gain it. If you help others, you benefit. If you lose yourself, you find yourself.

5. The Secret of Your success is determined by your daily agenda!

6. To be significant all you have to do is make a difference with others wherever you are , with whatever You have, day by day.

7.  The only way to have a good life is to have good relationships.

8. The problems look too big for us to tackle. We say to ourselves, “What can I do? I’m just one person.” One person is a start. One person can act and make a change by helping another.

9. Action is what converts human dreams into significance.

10. When you live each day with intentionality, there’s almost no limit to what you can do. You can transform yourself, your family, your community, and your nation.

11. One person can inspire a second person to be intentional, and another. Those people can work together. They can become a movement. They can make an impact.

12. When you intentionally use your everyday life to bring about positive change in the lives of others, you begin to live a life that matters.

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Benefits of Discipline by Pastor M.Gaudin

Benefits of Discipline

Discipline refers to the ability to control one's behavior, actions, and habits in order to achieve specific goals or adhere to a set of rules or principles. It plays a crucial role in personal growth, professional success, and overall well-being. Here are some of the key benefits of discipline:

Goal Achievement: Discipline enables individuals to set clear goals and work consistently towards achieving them. It helps in staying focused, organized, and motivated, increasing the chances of success in various areas of life, such as career, education, health, or personal development.

Increased Productivity: Discipline promotes a structured approach to work and life, leading to improved productivity. By developing consistent routines, setting priorities, and avoiding distractions, individuals can make the most efficient use of their time and energy.

Self-Control: Discipline strengthens self-control, allowing individuals to make better choices and resist impulsive behaviors. It helps in overcoming temptations, avoiding procrastination, and developing healthier habits, such as regular exercise, balanced eating, and adequate sleep.

Improved Mental Health: Maintaining discipline can contribute to improved mental well-being. By establishing healthy routines and habits, individuals can reduce stress, anxiety, and feelings of overwhelm. Discipline also encourages individuals to engage in self-care activities and prioritize their mental and emotional needs.

Enhanced Focus and Concentration: Discipline helps individuals develop the ability to concentrate and focus on tasks at hand. It enables them to block out distractions, increase attention span, and achieve higher levels of efficiency and quality in their work or studies.

Personal Development: Practicing discipline facilitates personal growth and self-improvement. It encourages individuals to pursue continuous learning, acquire new skills, and challenge themselves. Discipline also fosters perseverance, resilience, and the ability to overcome obstacles, which are essential qualities for personal development.

Better Relationships: Discipline can positively impact interpersonal relationships. By being disciplined, individuals demonstrate reliability, responsibility, and commitment, earning the trust and respect of others. Additionally, discipline helps in managing emotions, resolving conflicts effectively, and maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships.

Financial Stability: Discipline plays a crucial role in managing finances effectively. By practicing disciplined spending, budgeting, and saving habits, individuals can avoid unnecessary debt, achieve financial goals, and secure their long-term financial well-being.

Time Management: Discipline is closely linked to effective time management. By prioritizing tasks, setting deadlines, and adhering to schedules, individuals can make the most of their time, accomplish more, and experience reduced stress related to time pressure.

Overall Well-being: Ultimately, discipline contributes to a greater sense of overall well-being and satisfaction. It provides structure, purpose, and a sense of control over one's life. By aligning actions with values and long-term goals, individuals can experience a greater sense of fulfillment and happiness.

It is important to note that discipline should be balanced and flexible, rather than rigid or overly strict. It is about finding the right balance between structure and adaptability to achieve personal growth and success.

MY JOURNEY TO USA 28/06/2023.(PASTOR M.GAUDIN)

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10 Lessons from How To Finish Everything You Start by Jan Yager:

1. Define your priorities. What are the most important things in your life? Once you know what your priorities are, you can start to focus on finishing the things that are most important to you.

2. Break down large tasks into smaller ones. This will make them seem less daunting and more manageable.

3. Set deadlines for yourself. This will help you stay on track and avoid procrastination.

4. Reward yourself for your accomplishments. This will help you stay motivated and keep going.

5. Don't be afraid to ask for help. If you're struggling to finish something, don't be afraid to ask for help from others.

6. Learn from your mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes, but it's important to learn from them so that you don't make the same mistake twice.

7. Don't give up. There will be times when you want to give up, but it's important to keep going. If you keep working hard, you will eventually finish what you started.

8. Celebrate your successes. When you finish something, take some time to celebrate your success. This will help you stay motivated and keep going.

9. Be patient. It takes time to finish things, so be patient with yourself.

10. Enjoy the journey. Finishing things can be rewarding, but it's also important to enjoy the journey. So savor the process and enjoy the satisfaction of finishing something you started.

I hope these lessons help you on your journey to finishing everything you start.

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10 Lessons from The Happiest Man on Earth by Eddie Jaku:

10 lessons from The Happiest Man on Earth by Eddie Jaku:

• Be grateful for what you have. Eddie Jaku was a Holocaust survivor who lost everything, but he never gave up hope. He learned to be grateful for the small things in life, and he found happiness even in the darkest of times.

• Smile. A smile can make a world of difference. It can brighten someone's day and make you feel better about yourself.

• Forgive. Holding on to anger and resentment will only hurt you in the long run. Forgive those who have wronged you and move on with your life.

• Help others. Helping others is a great way to make yourself happy. It gives you a sense of purpose and makes you feel good about yourself.

• Live in the present moment. Don't dwell on the past or worry about the future. Focus on the present moment and enjoy it to the fullest.

• Be kind to yourself. Treat yourself with the same kindness and compassion that you would treat others.

• Be positive. A positive attitude can go a long way. It can help you overcome challenges and achieve your goals.

• Be grateful for the people in your life. Cherish the people who love and support you. They are the ones who make life worth living.

• Never give up hope. No matter what life throws your way, never give up hope. Keep fighting for what you believe in and never give up on your dreams.

• Live your life to the fullest. Don't waste a single day. Make the most of every moment and live your life to the fullest.

I hope these lessons help you on your journey to happiness.

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10 Lessons from The Big Questions of Life by John Ortberg:

10 lessons from The Big Questions of Life by John Ortberg:

1. Life is a mystery. There are many things about life that we don't understand, and that's okay. The mystery of life is part of what makes it so exciting.

2. Life is a journey, not a destination. It's not about getting to the end, it's about enjoying the ride. So slow down, take your time, and savor the moment.

3. Life is full of challenges. But challenges are not meant to defeat us, they're meant to make us stronger. So don't be afraid of challenges, embrace them.

4. Life is about relationships. The most important things in life are the people we love and care about. So make time for the people you love, and let them know how much you care.

5. Life is about giving. The more we give, the more we receive. So be generous with your time, your money, and your love.

6. Life is about making a difference. We all have the potential to make a difference in the world. So find something you're passionate about and make a difference.

7. Life is about living in the present moment. Don't dwell on the past or worry about the future. Focus on the present moment and enjoy it to the fullest.

8. Life is about finding your purpose. What are you here for? What is your unique contribution to the world? Find your purpose and live it to the fullest.

9. Life is about living with hope. Even in the darkest of times, there is always hope. So never give up hope, no matter what.

10. Life is about love. Love is the most powerful force in the universe. So let love guide you through life.

I hope these lessons help you on your journey through life.

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10 Lessons from the book "Finishing Strong:

10 lessons from the book "Finishing Strong: Going the Distance for Your Family" by Steve Farrar:

1. Set goals for your family. What do you want your family to be like? What kind of legacy do you want to leave? Write down your goals and make a plan to achieve them.

2. Be a good role model. Your children are watching you, so it's important to set a good example. Be honest, kind, and respectful, and show them how to live a life of integrity.

3. Spend time with your family. Make time for your family, even when you're busy. Play games, read stories, and just talk to each other. Let them know that you love them and that you're there for them.

4. Communicate with your family. Communication is key to any successful relationship. Talk to your family about their hopes, dreams, and fears. Let them know that you're interested in their lives and that you're there to listen.

5. Be forgiving. Everyone makes mistakes. When your family members make mistakes, be willing to forgive them. Forgiveness will help to heal the relationship and build trust.

6. Be patient. Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. There will be times when you want to give up. But if you're patient and persistent, you'll eventually reach your goals.

7. Be teachable. No one knows everything. Be willing to learn from your mistakes and from the mistakes of others. The more you learn, the better equipped you'll be to lead your family.

8. Be humble. Don't think that you have all the answers. Be willing to ask for help when you need it. Your family will respect you more if you're humble.

9. Be grateful. Be thankful for the blessings in your life, including your family. Express your gratitude to your family members often.

10. Pray for your family. Ask God to bless your family and to help you to be the best husband, father, and leader that you can be.

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TIPS ON HOW TO BUILD FRIENDSHIPS

Proverbs 17:17

[17]A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity.

Building and maintaining friendships is an essential part of a fulfilling life. Here are some tips on how to win friends:

Be genuinely interested in others: Show a sincere interest in people's lives, opinions, and experiences. Ask open-ended questions and actively listen to their responses. People appreciate when others show genuine interest in them.

Be a good listener: Pay attention when others are speaking and avoid interrupting or dominating the conversation. Show empathy and understanding by nodding, maintaining eye contact, and asking follow-up questions.

Be positive and friendly: Approach interactions with a positive attitude and a warm demeanor. Smile, use friendly body language, and be approachable. People are more likely to be drawn to those who radiate positivity.

Find common interests: Discover shared hobbies, passions, or activities that you can enjoy together. Engage in conversations and activities related to those interests, as they provide opportunities for bonding and deeper connections.

Show kindness and generosity: Be kind, compassionate, and helpful towards others. Offer assistance when needed and be supportive during challenging times. Small acts of kindness can go a long way in strengthening friendships.

Be reliable and trustworthy: Build trust by following through on your commitments, being dependable, and maintaining confidentiality. Trust forms the foundation of strong friendships, so it's important to be someone others can rely on.

Practice good communication skills: Be clear, honest, and respectful in your communication. Avoid gossiping or talking negatively about others. Express your thoughts and feelings openly while also being mindful of others' perspectives.

Be a good friend: Show up for your friends during both the good times and the bad times. Celebrate their achievements and provide support during challenging moments. Be loyal, understanding, and respectful of their boundaries.

Maintain regular contact: Stay connected with your friends by reaching out regularly. Initiate plans, send messages, or set up regular catch-up sessions. Consistency in communication helps strengthen friendships over time.

Be yourself: Authenticity is key to building genuine friendships. Be true to yourself and let your personality shine. People are more likely to befriend someone who is genuine and authentic.

Remember, building friendships takes time and effort. Not every interaction will result in a lifelong friendship, but by applying these principles, you can increase your chances of establishing meaningful connections with others.

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DO YOU KNOW WHY CHRISTIANS NEED THE HOLY SPIRIT?

Spiritual Guidance: The Holy Spirit is believed to guide and direct believers in their spiritual journeys. It is seen as the divine presence within individuals, helping them discern right from wrong, providing wisdom, and assisting in making decisions aligned with God's will.

Empowerment and Transformation: The Holy Spirit is said to empower believers with spiritual gifts, such as wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, and prophecy. It is believed to work within individuals to transform their character, helping them become more like Christ and enabling them to live according to God's teachings.

Comfort and Support: The Holy Spirit is often seen as a comforter and source of strength during times of difficulty, providing solace, peace, and encouragement to believers. It is believed to be present in times of sorrow, loss, and challenges, offering guidance and support.

Unity and Community: The Holy Spirit is seen as the unifying force within the Christian community, bringing believers together in fellowship and cooperation. It is believed to enable believers to love one another, serve each other, and work together for the common good.

Revelation and Inspiration: The Holy Spirit is considered the source of divine revelation, helping believers understand and interpret the Scriptures. It is believed to inspire and illuminate the Word of God, making it relevant and applicable to the lives of believers.

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Tips to raise Godly Kids

Tips to raise Godly Kids

Raising godly kids involves instilling strong values, fostering spiritual growth, and nurturing a deep relationship with God. While there is no one-size-fits-all approach, here are some general tips to help you raise godly kids:

Be a role model: Children learn by observing and imitating their parents. Your actions, attitudes, and behaviors should align with the values you want to instill in your children. Live out your faith authentically and consistently.

Teach and study Scripture: Regularly read and discuss the Bible with your children. Help them understand the teachings, stories, and principles found within. Encourage them to ask questions and engage in thoughtful discussions about their faith.

Pray together: Develop a habit of praying together as a family. Praying not only strengthens your relationship with God but also reinforces the importance of seeking Him in all aspects of life. Teach your children to pray for themselves and others.

Attend religious services: Regularly participate in worship services, whether at a church, synagogue, mosque, or any other place of worship that aligns with your faith. This helps children develop a sense of community, learn from spiritual leaders, and engage in religious practices.

Incorporate faith into daily life: Integrate your faith into everyday activities. Discuss how your beliefs inform your decisions, ethical choices, and interactions with others. Encourage your children to see the world through the lens of their faith and apply its principles to their actions.

Encourage questions and critical thinking: Foster an environment where your children feel comfortable asking questions about their faith. Encourage critical thinking and exploration of different perspectives while providing guidance and support.

Serve others: Teach your children the importance of compassion, empathy, and service to others. Engage in volunteer activities as a family, supporting charitable causes and participating in community service projects. By serving others, children learn to live out their faith in practical ways.

Surround them with positive influences: Encourage your children to spend time with peers and mentors who share their faith and values. A supportive community can help reinforce their beliefs and provide additional guidance and support.

Foster a personal relationship with God: Help your children develop a personal relationship with God by encouraging them to pray, read the Bible independently, and seek spiritual experiences. Teach them to listen to God's voice and discern His will for their lives.

Practice forgiveness and grace: Teach your children the importance of forgiveness, both seeking and extending it. Emphasize God's grace and unconditional love, showing them that everyone makes mistakes and can find redemption and restoration through Him.

Remember, raising godly kids is a lifelong journey that requires patience, consistency, and grace. Every child is unique, so adapt these tips to fit your family's dynamics and values.

Christian Leadership Qualities

Christian Leadership Qualities

Qualities of a Christian leader can vary depending on the context and specific responsibilities, but here are some common qualities often associated with effective Christian leadership:

Faith in Christ: A Christian leader should have a deep personal faith in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. This faith serves as the foundation for their values, decisions, and actions.

Humility: Christian leaders recognize their dependence on God and acknowledge that their leadership role is a privilege and a service. They exhibit humility by putting the needs of others before their own and by seeking guidance from God and others.

Integrity: Christian leaders prioritize living a life of honesty, transparency, and moral uprightness. They strive to align their actions and words with biblical principles, serving as role models for others.

Servant's heart: Christian leaders follow the example of Jesus, who came not to be served but to serve. They have a genuine concern for the well-being and growth of those they lead, seeking to empower and support them.

Wisdom and discernment: Christian leaders seek God's wisdom and guidance in making decisions. They have the ability to discern what is right and just, relying on prayer, biblical knowledge, and the Holy Spirit's leading.

Compassion and empathy: Christian leaders demonstrate a caring attitude towards others, showing compassion and empathy. They are willing to listen, understand, and respond to the needs, struggles, and joys of those under their care.

Vision and purpose: Christian leaders have a clear vision and sense of purpose that aligns with God's plan. They inspire and motivate others to work towards a common goal, while keeping their focus on eternal values and Kingdom priorities.

Effective communication: Christian leaders communicate with clarity, respect, and love. They listen attentively, express their thoughts effectively, and encourage open dialogue. They use their words to inspire, teach, and encourage others in their faith journey.

Courage and resilience: Christian leaders are willing to stand up for what is right, even in the face of opposition or adversity. They exhibit courage and resilience, trusting in God's strength and guidance to overcome challenges.

Commitment to discipleship: Christian leaders prioritize the spiritual growth and development of those they lead. They encourage and facilitate discipleship, helping others deepen their relationship with God and equipping them for their own leadership roles.

It's important to note that no leader is perfect, and growth in these qualities is a lifelong journey. Christian leaders continually seek God's guidance, rely on His grace, and are open to learning and growing in their leadership journey.

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The beauty of Marriage

The beauty of Marriage

The beauty of marriage is a subjective experience that can vary greatly from person to person. However, there are certain aspects that many people find beautiful and fulfilling in their marital relationships. Here are some commonly appreciated aspects of marriage:

Love and Companionship: Marriage allows two individuals to form a deep emotional bond based on love, trust, and companionship. It provides a sense of belonging and support, as couples navigate life's joys and challenges together. Sharing experiences, building memories, and having a partner to lean on can be incredibly fulfilling.

Partnership and Teamwork: Marriage is a partnership that involves cooperation, compromise, and shared responsibilities. Couples work together as a team, supporting each other's goals and dreams. Combining strengths and resources can lead to greater accomplishments and a sense of shared purpose.

Growth and Personal Development: Marriage offers an opportunity for personal growth and development. Through the process of building a life together, couples often learn from one another, challenge each other, and inspire personal growth. Marriage can be a catalyst for self-improvement and maturity.

Intimacy and Emotional Connection: Marriage allows for a deep level of intimacy and emotional connection. The trust and vulnerability that come with marriage can foster a safe space for open communication, emotional support, and understanding. Sharing life with a partner who knows you deeply and accepts you unconditionally can be a profound and beautiful experience.

Family and Legacy: Marriage often involves starting a family and building a legacy together. Raising children, creating traditions, and passing on values and experiences to future generations can bring a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Marriage provides a foundation for building a strong and supportive family unit.

Shared Happiness and Celebrations: Marriage allows for the celebration of shared happiness and milestones. From small daily joys to significant achievements, having a life partner to celebrate with can enhance the overall experience. Creating memories and cherishing special moments together can be deeply rewarding.

It's important to note that while marriage can be beautiful, it also requires effort, communication, and ongoing commitment from both partners. Every marriage is unique, and what one person finds beautiful may differ from another's perspective. Ultimately, the beauty of marriage lies in the love, connection, growth, and shared journey that two people embark upon together

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DO NOT IGNORE THE PROCESS

DO NOT IGNORE THE PROCESS

*Hebrews 12:5 – 8* says, “… *My son,* do not despise the chastening of the LORD, nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him; For whom the LORD loves He chastens…”

God Almighty disciplines us as a process to strengthen our desire and determination for Him, to reform us and keep us for a new level in life. *Today, everyone wants to be great but not everyone wants to go through the right process.* If you are in a haste to achieve something, you are likely to make costly mistakes that will pull you back, if not down.

If you ignore the process and focus only on the result, you may likely not have the patience to differentiate between God’s supply and satan’s bait. If it is God’s processing, the result will stand the test of time. *Do not ignore the process;* God is treating you as His own. God Almighty sometimes allows us to go through some dark moments as a process so that when the light finally comes, we will be matured enough to maintain it. *God is trying to build character now so that when you get to the place of destiny, you won’t crack and explode and lose it all.* 

God wants us to prosper in all areas of our lives. He does not want us to succeed financially by losing ourselves to conditions. *He does not want you to lose your peace or your sleep.* So, if you follow the right process and don’t get result, don’t worry. You are about to get the mother of results. Don’t get disappointed, God is preparing you for something greater than what you are seeing. *All you need to do is to remain patient and allow Him to make things happen in His time.*

Let's Pray!  Oh Holy Spirit, help me to trust You, even when every sense contradicts You, in Jesus’ Name. Amen!

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INPUTS FOR A GODLY MARRIAGE

*1. FAITHFULNESS*

When we say our vows at the altar, we promise to be faithful to one another for as long as we live. Loyalty to our spouse is the foundation of trust in our marriage; when loyalty and faithfulness disappear, so does that trust. And once broken, trust is difficult to re-establish.

“Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” – Mark 10:9 (New International Version)

*2. HONOR*

Merriam-Webster defines honor as “high respect; esteem.” It’s next-level respect, and as married couples, we’re meant to give the highest regard to one another. We show honor in the way we speak to each other, the way we behave, and the way we conduct ourselves both in and out of the home.

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” – Romans 12:10 (NIV)

*3. HUMILITY*

Pride and arrogance have no place in a harmonious marriage; instead, we’re meant to be humble and unassuming; we shouldn’t jump to worst-case conclusions about one another, and we must always be ready to step up and admit when we’re wrong. Humility means not pushing our opinions on one another (even when we’re right), and giving our spouse the floor when we might really want it ourselves.

“With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” – Ephesians 4:2-3(NIV)

*4. PATIENCE*

It can be a challenge to be patient with one another, especially when it comes to the inevitable personality clashes we have with our spouses from time to time. But the scriptures urge us to exercise patience, and to show kindness when we’re feeling irritated with one another. It’s one of the many attributes that helps us keep the peace in our marriages.

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2 (NIV)

*5. UNDERSTANDING*

Because a marriage consists of two very different people merging their lives and creating a home together, it’s important for us to try to understand each other–especially when our spouse is hardest to understand. Practicing empathy–the art of stepping into your spouse’s shoes and seeing situations from his or her angle–will help you as you work daily to understand one another.

“In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together.” – 1 Peter 3:7 (NIV)

*6. UNITY*

In a marriage, husbands and wives are on the same team–two people who have chosen to be joined together as one. Unity doesn’t mean you have to agree on everything or have all the same preferences, likes, and dislikes; instead, it means sticking together in spite of your differences. It’s a conscious decision to work together to reach consensus, compromising when necessary as you make decisions together, both big and small.

“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14 (NIV)

*7.TRUSTING GOD TO SHAPE and Reshape you you for your Marriage*

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*10 Ways to Be More Successful in Life*

*1.Take decisive and immediate action*

An idea without a plan is still just an idea. In order to make your dreams a reality, you will need to take action and make it happen.

*2.Set realistic expectations*

Although it is important to maintain a high level of standard that we set for ourselves, it is also easy to get carried away. Don’t punish yourself when things don’t go as planned; stay persistent and positive to get things done. The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists—it rewards people who get things done.

*3.Work outside of your comfort zone*

When an opportunity presents itself, just go for it, and don’t let fear hold you back. You won’t be able to grow as an individual if you choose to stay in the same place. Challenge yourself to step outside of your comfort zone.

*4.Manage your time wisely*

Prioritize your goals, and decide what is worthy of your time now and what can wait. When your schedule is more cleared up, you will find you will have the time to instead be more productive, which is what will move you forward to a more successful life.

*5.Focus on making small, continuous improvements*

Let’s let Henry Ford handle this one: “Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small pieces.” Making small, attainable goals will, in turn, help you reach the bigger picture quicker and with much less stress.

*6.Maintain your health*

Studies show that you are at your best mental state and happiest when you take the time to take care of yourself.

*7.Learn from your mistakes*

Every mistake made is a lesson to be learned. The only true mistake you can make is choosing not to attain your goal because you are afraid of making a mistake. Stay positive and when the going gets tough, keep going!

*8.Be selective*

Know when it is okay to say no to something you simply don’t want to do, or that is not important. Keep your schedule open for activities that you value or that could lead to opportunities

*9.Choose the right people to spend your time with*

Surrounding yourself with supportive, like-minded, focused individuals will enrich your life. Mind-set is contagious. Work together with these people to make a difference in everyone’s lives.

*10.Be original*

It’s hard to be a success in your field when you are following others and their ideas. Be a leader, create your own path, and believe in yourself to get you where you want to be. Believe in God who Created you with A greater Purpose.

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