The 21 Steps to Becoming an Alpha Male

The Alpha, is the ideal, the elite. It’s the beginning, the first, the original. The alpha male – in the context we’ll discuss in this article – isn’t merely a social alpha, or a leader of a social group. He’s the leader of his own life in a very powerful way. He’s the leader of his friends and family, and someone who you can’t avoid respecting, even admiring, for the kind of man he is in every facet of life. He’s a man of honor, integrity, and strength.

1. Be Real With Yourself.

Self awareness is a quality held by few – very few. There aren’t many who can see their deepest failures and weaknesses, and have the courage to work on them. There are even fewer that have the courage not to cover them up, or to fill the voids in their lives with quick fixes.

Quick fixes are the norm in today’s society, but they can’t exist in the life of an alpha male. He doesn’t fill his loneliness with drugs or porn. He doesn’t fill his insecurities by making fun of others and preying on the perceived weaknesses of others. He’s aware of the voids in his life, the emptiness, the longing for something greater, and he actively attempts to become a better person by making these his strengths.

Be real with yourself. What are your insecurities? Make them known. Say them out loud. That’s the first step in becoming a strong, courageous alpha male.

2. Do Your Thing.

The more I read about great leaders, and by correlation, great alpha males, I realize that they marched to the beat of their own drum. They had their own agenda in life. They had their own principles, passions, and they wouldn’t let others pull them from their mission.

This is not only a defining quality of a great leader, and a great man, but of an alpha male. A true alpha male doesn’t need a crowd to boost his ego. He’s self aware to the point that he knows his weaknesses, his misgivings, and he doesn’t need others to fill voids in his life.

Create your own path in life. Find what you’re passionate about, make sure it benefits others, and don’t let any barrier stand in your way. It’s when w have the internal strength to do our own thing, we can become a leader, and an alpha.

3. Seek to Do That Which You Fear.

I never get into arguments on Facebook, or Youtube, or the blog. To me, it’s just a waste of time. But the other day I did get in an argument with someone who scolded me for encouraging a young guy in a fight he said he had to go through with the following day.

Fact: the only way to defeat a bully is to stand strong, firm, and fight him. Avoiding him, her, it, will lead you to a life of weakness. Sometimes we have to walk into a battle knowing that we’re probably going to get our ass kicked, and take that beating like a man to earn the respect of not only our peers, but ourselves.

If my son is being bullied, I’ll tell him to stand and fight, just like my Old Man told me when I was younger. And guess what, I fought a bully once, and never had to fight anyone bullying me again.

Don’t merely do the things you’re afraid of, get in touch with your soul, and seek out that which you fear, then conquer it head on. For some, that might be fighting a bully, for others, that may mean quitting your job and starting your company. Others might have to travel.

You know what you’re afraid of. An alpha male doesn’t merely wait for an opportunity to face his fear; he understands that it’s the fight, the battle, that strengthens him, and times of calm, of peace, that weaken him.

4. Live a Life of a Warrior.

A warrior without a battle is akin to a man without a purpose; without a soul. As men, we need adventure, we need a battle, and I’m convinced that we need to look at our lives as if they’re one big war.

What are we fighting?

There’s a strong part of our hearts – the warrior in us – and a weak part: the coward. The coward wants to take the easy road, the path of least resistance. The warrior wants what our true heart and soul yearns for: action, the object of our ambition, a family, real relationships.

One is evil, one is good. The battle between the two is very real. An alpha male recognizes the battle, and he fights it every minute of every day. One of the reasons why alpha males are so few, is that the vast majority of the men in this world are cowards. They give in to the path of least resistance. They follow the crowds that lead to an empty life.

At every opportunity, live life like a warrior. This means treating life as a war, but also living a life of discipline and courage. Be the shoulder and the soldier for those who need one. Be the Alpha.

5. Have the Courage to Fail Gloriously

The average person lives in fear of failure. It’s one of the most debilitating forces on the planet. It’s what holds back potentially great men from greatness, and it’s what makes an alpha male, an alpha.

Failing at the small, inconsequential things in life is easy. It doesn’t take much courage, and it’s not even worth mentioning. It’s when you follow your heart, your ambition, and work your ass off, that the possibility of failure becomes real, engulfing, and even crushing. This is when a real man rises, fights, forges on, and fights on.

An alpha male has the courage to go against the grain, and to attempt to accomplish what has never been done. Thomas Edison was an alpha male, as was Napoleon, and Teddy Roosevelt. Each of them did more in their years than many could in 100 life times. Don’t attempt small, insignificance, attempt and fail gloriously.

6. Become Self-Reliant.

An alpha male doesn’t have to rely on others to succeed in life. He doesn’t have to rely on others to pay his bills, to make his meals, for emotional support, for strength. His strength is internal, it’s developed. You may not have that kind of strength yet, but you’ll get there, as will I.

Please come to the fundamental understanding that in life no one owes you a single thing. Everything you want in life – be they relationships, money, fame, happiness, self-worth, a place in the world where you feel that you matter – you have to create, cultivate, and forge.

As Mr. Balboa so elloquently stated to his son, “The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place… and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it.” It’s only through becoming self reliant that you can ensure that you can take care of yourself and those around you.

Now, being self-reliant can take many on meanings, shapes, and forms. Emerson’s Self Reliance was one that each of us as men, need to possess. In becoming self reliant in the way that we are self reliant physically, to take care of ourselves, where we don’t need someone to build our house, hunt for our food, fix our car, write our report, we can take care of ourselves and truly forge our own path in life.

This is the way of the alpha male. If there’s an area of your life where you need assistance, learn how to assist yourself. I just travelled to Mexico for a week, and completely depended on others knowing English for my survival; never again. Being able to not only survive in a hard world, but thrive in one, is something a modern alpha male must do.

Make a list of areas in which you aren’t self reliant, and get working bit by bit.

7. Build The Body of an Alpha Male.

Growing up, Teddy Roosevelt was a weak and sickly boy, something his father would have nothing of. His dad was a strong, strapping man who took pride in his appearance, and what he could do physically. Having a son that would grow up to be a weak man was something he just wasn’t prepared to accept. So he didn’t.

At a young age Roosevelt Sr. put Teddy on a weight lifting routine to build his body, and taught him how to box. Teddy was a true alpha male, and his physical transformation – along with his embracing of the strenuous life – was a large reason for that.

8. Get in a Fist Fight.

Growing up in a Christian home, I always heard the term “turn the other cheek” in Sunday school, but when I faced my first bully, my Dad told me to stand and fight. He knew that you can’t avoid or back down from a fight unless you first posses the courage and the power to fight.

And so I fought. I beat the bully, and the bully stopped being a bully, and instead became a friend. That’s the way of the warrior. A warrior doesn’t need to fight at every opportunity, actually, he rarely does, but when the time comes where it’s a matter of honor, or of defending another, he has the power to destroy whatever enemy stands in his way.

If you let the bully win as a kid, he’ll win as a teen, and again as an adult, and that bully doesn’t get weaker, he gets more cunning, more evil, and more relentless.

Great men have known battle. They’ve fought. They’ve been beat physically, and have beaten others physically. They know that the world literally does knock you down, and it’s how many times you get back up that really matters. A real man, and an alpha male, has taken his lumps, and given many to boot.

This isn’t metaphorical: You need to get hit in the face to be an alpha male. You need to see what you’re really made of. You need to get your ass handed to you in the ring, get laid out on the football field, get blindsided on the ice. Physical violence isn’t a nice thing, but it’s a part of who we are. It has been a part of who we are for a long, long time.

Only recently have we been able to avoid confrontation and physical violence and still get through life. We find our confrontation in a false reality, and so we create false men (enter the world of video games). When physical violence and even hard tribulation and competition make an appearance in our lives, we’re ill-equipped to deal with them.

When living without honor becomes easier than living with it, we give in to the easy road because we so deathly fear violence, struggle, and competition. That’s not the way of a real man, nor is it the way of an alpha male. Join a sport, put on some gloves and get in the boxing ring, and enter the ring of life.

Too much comfort has weakened our society – it’s killed our masculinity. There is no evolution within our species without physical violence. It makes a wimp into a warrior when he stands and fights.

9. At Some Point, Stop Asking for Help

This is in line with self-reliance, but it comes from a more social and financial angle. An alpha male sometimes needs to go off on his own, to become a better leader. He needs to break free from his parents, to become a man. Human relationships are a large part of our happiness on this planet. They’re what give our lives meaning and purpose. But they can also be debilitating for our development if all we do is rely on others for support – support that can come in many forms.

One of the toughest things for me to do when I was younger, was to move out of my parents house and start a business at the same time. I’m not suggesting that everyone do this, but I am suggesting that if the time is right – even wrong – you make your life just a bit harder on yourself.

Don’t underestimate your internal strength and power.

What often holds us back from becoming real men and alpha males is the lack of faith we have in ourselves. We don’t think we have what it takes to cut it in the real world, or we’re afraid to do the work. If you’re at a point where you don’t feel that you can live without the support of your family, friends, cushy job, then break free of these things that keep you safe.

Read, and read a lot. Find strength internally, from books, and from the power you have within. It’s there. Make life harder on yourself, or you’ll never experience the power you have within.

10. Become a Voracious Reader.

An alpha male strengthens his mind as well as his body and spirit. Remember, we’re not merely talking about a social alpha, or the leader of a pack. An alpha male doesn’t have to be the biggest guy in the world. If you’ve met any bodybuilders before, you’ll know that they’re often the most insecure guys in the room.

They’re not alphas, but they’re huge. The true alpha male is the guy who’s strengthened his mind, which helps him become more self-aware, self-reliant, and confident in a quiet sense.

Try not watching any TV for a week, and instead read. Read anything by Stephen Pressfield, Robin Sharma, or Emerson. Read anything on or about Teddy Roosevelt, Abraham Lincoln, or Napoleon Bonaparte. If there’s one commonality between all great men in history, and all great leaders and alpha males, it’s that they had a lust for books. This is no coincidence.

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Potatoes, Eggs, and Coffee Beans

No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it . 1 Corinthians 10:13

Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot, and ground coffee beans in the third pot.

He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing.

After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup. Turning to her he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?”

“Potatoes, eggs, and coffee,” she hastily replied.

“Look closer,” he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity– the boiling water.

However, each one reacted differently.

The potato went in strong, hard, and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak.

The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard.

However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.

“Which are you,” he asked his daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean? “

Moral:In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is what happens within us.

Which one are you?

5 Steps to Personal Greatness

1. Self-Awareness

Knowing your strengths and weaknesses is not as easy as it sounds. To understand our personal surpluses and deficits is not an option on our journey to personal greatness. If we want to drive our performance, then we must be able to manage our emotions in ways that energize and direct that drive.

The research is plentiful that IQ accounts for about 20 percent of a person’s success. Moods account for much more. If we are not aware of our moods, then they can end up controlling our behavior in counterproductive ways. Self-awareness means we are growing in our ability to read our emotions accurately. This gives us the ability to self-regulate and self-manage destructive moods and attitudes. Mood mastery is necessary for personal mastery.

Be self-aware instead of self-conscious.

2. Self-Affirmation

We know it’s not healthy to speak against or gossip about others. It becomes even more destructive when we use words to speak against ourselves. Self-affirmation is a matter of choosing what we focus on. If others talked to us the way we sometimes talk to ourselves, we would avoid them. It can become easy to degrade ourselves, sometimes subliminally. Instead of letting other people and circumstances decide what you will focus on, make it your choice.

Attitudes that asphyxiate include: You’re no good… lousy… incompetent… unable… ordinary… worthless. Attitudes that affirm? I am lovable… forgivable… capable… have strengths… am multi-talented… have purpose. The world can be a negative place. You must counteract toxic noise.

Be self-affirming instead of self-degrading.

3. Self-Motivation

If you are waiting to be motivated by someone else, personal mastery will elude you. Always giving your best is an inside job. Some days are better than others, but give your best every day. Anything less than that leads to a thin life and ultimately, regret.

Motivation is the underlying reason why a person does or doesn’t do something. The stick and carrot incentive is not nearly as powerful as a person’s innate interests. This raises the level of personal productivity and individual engagement. It’s about knowing how you are hardwired and drawing on your natural sense of intrigue.

Be self-motivated instead of self-absorbed.

4. Self-Differentiation

Knowing where you end and others begin is the key to healthy living. You have to understand that when people get together, they create an emotional force field. This force field is powerful. It can cause people to get enmeshed with others and fall into groupthink, or what some refer to as the herd instinct. On the other extreme, it can cause them to disconnect from others and lose important feedback loops, which are the keys to learning. One extreme leads to a sense of helplessness, blame, rationalization, denial, co-dependency and victimhood.

When we self-differentiate, we take responsibility for who and where we are. Responsibility means we have the ability to respond. This powerful skill gives us increased choices and freedoms. It strengthens our immune system to the opinions and actions of others. To not do this is to become the victim of needless suffering.

Practice self-differentiation instead of self-pity.

5. Self-Love

If we are to “love our neighbor as our self,” then I will submit that your love for others cannot and will not exceed your love for yourself. To love others without loving yourself is often an act of desperation to seek someone’s approval. As a result, it says more about the sender’s needs than the needs of the receiver. Sometimes wanting the best for others can involve pain. And wanting the best for yourself includes telling yourself the truth. And who, at times, hasn’t found that to include some pain?

There’s a reason why the airline’s safety instructions tell you to put the oxygen mask on yourself before helping others. You’ll be no good to them without it. You can’t give what you don’t have.

Be self-loving instead of self-serving.

These five self’s will help you discover and express what you want. They lead to clear communication and help avoid drama, regret, sadness and misunderstanding. Personal greatness is not possible without them.

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INKOTA UTITWAJE NTIGUKIZA: ABAKIRISTO BAKWIYE KUGIRA INTWARO Z'URUGAMBA!

1Samuel 13:21

Nicyo gituma ku munsi w'intambara, mu bantu bari kumwe na Sawuli  na Yonatani  nta n'umwe wari utwaye inkota cyangwa icumu, ariko Sawuli n'Umuhungu we Yonatani bo bari babyitwaje.

Mu buzima tubamo bwa buri munsi duhura n'Intambara, kandi bisaba ko tuzirwana. hari igihe intambara itera uri kumwe nabantu bakagufasha cyangwa badahari ukirwanaho! intambara z'abakristo bahura nazo ziratandukanye kuko usanga turwana n'isi umubiri na Satani, ibyo byose niko biba bishaka guhinyuza kwizera kwacu.

Hari abakristo bamwe bibwira ko batungwa n'amasengesho abashumba babo babasengeye, cyangwa bibwira ko iyo bari mukivunge bose batagabwaho igitero, reka nkubwireko igihe kijya kigera ugasanga nubwo uri kumwe nabandi kurugamba wakwitegereza ugasanga abafite intwaro si benshi. ibaze nawe kureba uri kurugamba ugasanga abantu babiri gusa nibo bafite inkota abandi bose ntacyo bitwaje!

uyu munsi ndashaka kukubwira ko ubunini bw'itorero sicyo cyerekana ko abantu biteguye kurwana na satani, kuko dufite abantu benshi bari mu matorero bakiroga, bagisambana, bakiri abajura, bagikora ibikorwa byose bitarimo kwirinda! bene data tugeze mw'isi aho abantu bashaka gukora ibyaha ariko badashaka no kwitwa abasirikare!

Ibaze nawe niba ufite intwaro kurugamba, igihe kimwe abisiraheli babuze intwaro zo kurwanisha, kuko abafilisitiya bari baragiye umugambi bati tubababuze kwicurishiriza intwaro! biroroshye gutsinda umuntu udafite intwaro zo kurwanisha! biroroshye kumutsinda ukoreresheje imbaraga nke!

icyo nakuyemo!

Satani ntakangwa nuko witwa umusirikare, ahubwo akangwa nuko uri umusirikare ufite intwaro nyazo kuko nibwo wamurwanya! bene Data umukristo ubuze Ukuri no Kwirinda ntatera ubwoba satani. Umukristo udafite ijambo ry'Imana ntatera ubwoba satani. isi ya none irimo kubuza abantu akanya ko kwitekerezaho, ko gusenga biherereye! reka nkubwire ko ukwiye kongera kwisuzuma kugira ngo nawe utazaterwa utiteguye.

Ni ibiki bikubuza kugira intwaro z'Intambara? nukuba busy? ni whatsapp na facebook? ni inzoga n'Ubusambanyi? ni iki? isuzume uyu munsi kugira ngo igihe cyo guterwa uzabe uhagaze neza! nibyiza kwitegura intamabara mugihe cy'Amahoro! uyu munsi niba ubona uguwe neza ukwiye kwitegura kandi ukamenya ko Satani atanejejwe nuko ubayeho mu mahoro! ABEFESO 6:10. Wisuzume urebe niba izi ntwaro zose uzambaye cyangwa wisanze murugamba utazambaye!

IMANA IZI IBIDUKWIRIYE, NTIDUHA IBYO DUSABYE GUSA!

Iyo urebye ubuzima bw'abasenga benshi bagera igihe bagasa n'abatinya gusaba Imana, akeshi baba batinya guhura no kutabona icyo basabye! noneho bagahitamo gusaba ibintu kuri bamwe bita ko bishoboka! uzasanga umuntu asenga abandi bamwumva bati nawe ibyo ni ukugindoza Imana! ariko ntibiba ari ukugondoza Imana igihe cyose wibwira mu mutima ko Imana izaguha icyo ukeneye cyane kurusha icyo wasabye.

Mu byakozwe n'Intumwa ibice 3 harimo inkuru z'umuntu wavutse aremaye! kandi wari umaze kunyurwa nuko ari kuburyo ntahantu batubwira ko yigeze asaba gukira nari mwe, ahubwo yasabaga abantu kumuterura bakamwicaza ahantu kwirembo ryitwa ryiza! iri rembo koko ryari ryiza kuko ryari irembo binjiriramo bajya murusengero, ntago batubwira ko akimugaye yigeze agera murusengero! kuko ibyo  yasaba byari ibyoroheje kuburyo yabiboneraga ku muryango!

abantu benshi babayeho mubuzima bw'Uburwayi aho gusaba gukira wumva asengera kubona amafranga yo kujya mubuhinde, cyangwa yo kugura Imiti, uyu munsi nubwo utarimo gusaba gukira ndagutangariza ko Imana ibasha kugukiza, kuko ibasha kuduha ibirenze ibyo twayisabye n'Ibyo twibwira. abantu benshi bamaze kuba ibikange kuburyo bumva amajwi ababwira ko byarangiye bakwiye kwigumira kwirembo ry'Urusengero.

Kwirembo ry'Urusengero nihagati y'Ikicyifuzo n'Ishimwe, ndakubwira ukuri yuko Imana yagukura hagati aho ukinjirana n'abandi murusengero ugiye kuyishima, akenshi kwirembo umuntu ashima abantu niyo mpamvu uyu munsi niba wizeye Imana ntitaye kukibazo ufite Imana igiye kukuremera ishimwe aho  gushima abantu ukagerana nabandi murusengero ukajya gushima Imana.

sinzi nawe icyo umaze iminsi usengera, ndashaka kugutangariza ko Imana itareba gusa urutonde rw'Ibyo wasibya ahubwo ifite urutonde runini rw'Ibidukwiye, Imana iragira iti nzi ibyo nibwira kubagirira, ndakubwiza ukuri ko uyu mwaka nuhanga amaso Imana uzabona ibintu byinshi biruta cyane ibyo wayisabye kuko Ibasha gukora ibiruta cyane ibyo dusaba! abefeso 3:20.

Ndakwifuriza kwizera Imana ishobora kugutunga ubu ndetse n'ejo hazaza hawe harashinganye, akira igitangaza cyawe mw'Izina rya Yesu, Imana uyu munsi niba wasabaga amafranga yo kurya iguhe aguze imirima no guhingisha, niba wasaba itike iguhe imodoka, niba sabaga abaguterura igukize ubumuga n'ibindi wowe wizere Imana ishobora kuguha ibirenze!

Pastor Gaudin

New Jerusalem Church

ndabakunda!

Potential Is Never Given for Itself

Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who

belong to the family of believers (Galations 6:10).

When I was in college, I went on a tour of Europe. After several days, I lost interest in all I was seeing because my fiancée, who is now my wife, was not there to share it with me. On that trip I learned

the truth of this principle: Potential is never given for itself. Whatever God gives to you, He gives for others. Even as a solitary instrument cannot produce the majestic music of a symphonic orchestra, so human beings cannot glorify their Creator in isolation. 

I need your potential to maximize mine, and you need my potential to maximize yours. All we have been given is meant to be shared. After man had finished naming all the animals and no suitable

helper for him was found among them, God performed another significant act of creation. Why? “It is not good for the man to be alone” (Genesis 2:18). God did not make woman because man asked for a wife, nor

because a helper for man was a good idea. Man needed a companion because he could not realize his potential without sharing it with someone. His solitary existence was not good. To be solitary or alone is not the same as being single. To be alone is to be isolated and cut off from others. Communication is impossible because you have no one like yourself to share with. This is what God says is not good. To be single is to be unmarried. Marriage is not a requirement or a prerequisite for the fulfillment of your potential. You do not necessarily need a husband or a wife. 

What you do need, however, is someone with whom you can share your potential. This is true because your personal satisfaction is connected to your fulfilling God’s purpose for your life, and your purpose cannot be achieved in isolation. You need those people who will call forth your potential and into whom you can pour your life. You may be wired to be single, but you are not designed to live isolated and alone. You need someone with whom you can share your potential.

From Late Myles Munroe

ITANGIRIRO 2:18-25

Kandi Uwiteka Imana iravuga iti “Si byiza ko uyu muntu aba wenyine, reka muremere umufasha umukwiriye.”.Uwiteka Imana irema mu butaka amatungo yose n’inyamaswa zo mu ishyamba zose, n’inyoni n’ibisiga byo mu kirere byose, ibizanira uwo muntu ngo imenye uko abyita, kandi uko uwo muntu yise ikintu cyose gifite ubugingo, aba ari ryo riba izina ryacyo.Uwo muntu yita amatungo yose n’inyoni n’ibisiga byo mu kirere n’inyamaswa zo mu ishyamba zose, ariko umufasha umukwiriye yari ataraboneka.

Uwiteka Imana isinziriza uwo muntu ubuticura arasinzira, imukuramo urubavu rumwe ihasubiza inyama,urwo rubavu Uwiteka Imana yakuye muri uwo muntu, iruhindura umugore imushyira uwo muntu.Aravuga ati “Uyu ni igufwa ryo mu magufwa yanjye, Ni akara ko mu mara yanjye, Azitwa Umugore kuko yakuwe mu Mugabo.”.Ni cyo gituma umuntu azasiga se na nyina, akabana n’umugore we akaramata, bombi bakaba umubiri umwe.Kandi uwo mugabo n’umugore we bombi bari bambaye ubusa, ntibakorwe n’isoni.

Dusomye neza muri iki gice, dusobanukirwa uburyo bukwiye abantu bakwiye kwitwara mugihe cyose bumva bafite ibyifuzo byo gushinga urugo. umuntu wese utarashaka kandi witwa ko ari umukristo yakabaye ahugijwe n'Umurimo w'umwami Imana imuha gukora. hanyuma igihe cyose Imana iba izi neza ibyo dukeneye. aha unyumve neza sinkubuza kubenguka no kubengukwa, ariko ndabaza nti ese uhugiye mubiki?

Adamu yari ahugijwe no kubana n'Imana yewe ibyo byari binamunejeje, Imana yonyine niyo yashoboraga kumenya ko Adamu hari ikintu abura, Hanyuma iramusinziririza imuzanira umuntu maze atangira  kuvuga byinshi.

Hari abantu bavugishwa amagambo menshi n'abantu Imana itabazaniye,ukmara kumubwira amagam amagambo asa nayo adamu yavuze ati: uyu ni igufwa ryo mu magufwa yanjye! ugasanga wabibwiye abantu barenga umwe! Ese nshuti yanjye umaze kubwira bangahe ayo magambo? sinshaka ngo unsubize ahubwo ndashaka ko ubitekerezaho!

Igihe cyose kubana n'Imana bikurutira kubana n'Umugore cyangwa umugabo, Imana ibona ko nawe umukeneye. Imana ngo ibona ko atari byiza ko Adamu aba wenyine! Uyu munsi Abantu benshi bahugijwe no gushaka inshuti aho gushaka Imana! ariko nkubwize ukuri, Inshuti nziza uyibonera mu mana. Inshuti ukuye hanze y'Imana ukayizanira Imana izagusubiza hanze ikujyane kwa sobukwe usange ari kwa Satani.

Uyu munsi ndagira ngo dufatikanye kwibaza iki kibazo: Ese Imana ko idategeka abantu bose Gushaka, igihe cyose nshatse bitandukanye n'Ijambo ryayo ntahabwa umugisha? hari abantu benshi bagirwa Inama mbere yo gushaka, aho usanga umukobwa w'umwizerwa ashakanye n'umupagani ngo azamuhindura, ariko Imana ntiyigeze ituremera abantu bo guhindura ahubwo ikuremera uzaguha umunezero.

Igihe cyose uhugiye ku by'Imana izita ku byawe, niba uyu munsi ikikurangaje ari ugukora umurimo w'Imana, niba ikikurangaje ari ukubaha Imana , gukiranuka no Kwirinda Imana izaguha umufasha ugukwiye. kandi uwo uzabona aje kugushyigikira mu muhamagaro kurenza kuwugukuramo. abantu benshi bararira ngo abagore cyangwa abagabo babo ntibabemerera no gusenga! ariko nkwibarize nti ese wamushatse ute?

Ntushobora kwica amahame y'Imana mu byo kubaka urugo ngo wizere ibisubizo biturutse ku mana, ndahamya ko Imana yo ifite uko ivuga, niba uri umukristo, ugashakana n'Umuntu utizera Imana, kandi Imana yarabikubujije, ndahamya ko uba wiyemeje kureka Imana ugasanga umugabo cyangwa umugore.

Uyu munsi Imana ishaka ko duhugira mukwimenya no kumenya Imana , aho guhugira mu kumenya abo tuzashaka n'ibindi turarikiriye! igihe cyose utakaje uwo uriwe kugirango wakire undi muntu mubuzima bwawe uba uhombye ikintu kinini.

igihe cyose wumva ko uhagijwe nuko uri wenyine, kandi wowe n'Imana muhagije kubanaho ubuzima bwiza nibwo Imana ibona ko ukeneye umufasha. icyo gihe gushaka bizaba ari umugisha kuruta ko byakubera umutwaro. ukwiye kuba wihagije mu mitekerereze, kuko Imana yita kubugingo cyane kuruta ibigaragara.

Hari abantu bajya bavuga ngo:Unyanze napfa! uko biri kose umuntu wicwa nuko bamwanze abeshejweho nuko bamukunze? icyo cyaba ari ikinyoma! abantu bashobora ku kwanga ariko Imana mwatangiranye urugendo niyo murusozanya iyo ukomeje kuyibera umwizerwa. Uyu munsi ukwiye kumenya ko Ubuzima bwo gushaka uwo muzabana, bukwiye kubanzirizwa n'Ubuzima bwo gushaka Imana yamuremye, hanyuma mubiganza byayo niho wakura uwo Imana yakugeneye kandi akagufasha kuzuza ibyo Imana yakuremeye.

Uyu munsi, hari abantu benshi, binkira mubyo bita urukundo ugasanga niba yari akomeye nibwo aguye, nonese ubwo uwo ni umufasha? umufasha aho agusanze akuriza indi ntambwe, akongerera icyubahiro, arakubahisha, kandi yishimira ko Imana yakomeza kukuzamura!Kuko icyo azira mubuzima bwawe si ikindi ahubwo aza kugushyigikira.

Hano ukwiye kwibuka ibi:

1.Abantu bose ntibashaka; hariho abavutse ari ibiremba, abandi bakonwe n'abantu, hariho n'Inkone zikona ubwazo ku bw'Ubwami bwo mw'Ijuru. matayo 19:11

2. Ukwiye guhanga amaso Imana aho kuyahanga uwo wifuza gushaka, kuko umuntu muzima uzamukura murugendo rugana ku Mana, abandi bose batari muri iyo nzira  bashobora kukurangaza. nuwo wakura ahandi hatari aho ukwiye gushishoza cyane.

3.Gushaka si amaranga mutima ahubwo n'icyemezo, kuko amarangamutima ahindukana n'ibihe, imyaka n'Ikimero. umuntu wifuza gushaka ujye wibuka ko ari we muzabana ibihe byose, arwaye, akennye,akize,mu bibi no mu byiza. ntukwiye kumushakira ibyo atunze.

4. Igihe cyose umuntu atanyuzwe no kubana n'Imana, ntiyiteguye kubana n'umuntu munzu!

5. Ukwiye kwita kucyo Imana iguhamagarira gukora kw'isi nibwo Imana izaguha Umufashaka ugukwiye. ariko niwita ku mufasha ugatakaza impamvu, uzazana umuntu wo kujugunyira izahabu zawe ingurube kuko atazi ibyo wahamagariwe.

5. Igihe  cyose Imana iguhaye umugisha, biguhesha amahoro. Igihe cyose  ubuze amahoro uba wakiriye ikitari icyawe.

6. Ubuzima bw'Umuntu ntibushingira ko afite inshuti y'umukobwa cyangwa y'Umuhungu, ahubwo bushingiye ko ufite Imana ikuzi na nyuma yo gupfakara. Ukwiye kwita Kucyo Imana ikuvugaho kuruta kwita kuko wifuza kumera.

7. Ukwiye kubanza kuba wikunda bihagije byatuma uzakunda nuwo muzabana. Ese wifuza ko watwara inda? wifuza gushaka udakoze ubukwe? wifuza kugwa kubera ubusambanyi? igihe ibyo byose utabyifuza ntiwabyifuriza nuwo ubwira ko ukunda! 

8.Ukwiye kwibuka ko ibyo umuntu abiba aribyo asarura: Ese wifuza kuzumva abana bawe babana n'abagabo cyangwa abagore utabizi batarasezerana? uyu munsi ukwiye kwibaza uti ese kuki njye nakora ibi mw'izina ry'Urukundo.

Icyitonderwa: Uyu munsi Isi igeze aho ibona ubwizerane nko kwemera kuryamana n'Umuntu (Gusambana mbere yo kwemerwa n'Imana n'abantu). kuburyo ibyo bitabaye hariho bamwe bumva ko mutizeranye. ariko ubusambanyi ntibuvuga kwizerana! ubihakana agende abaze abantu bigurisha, ese hari ubwizerane bagira?

Umuntu wese umuhungu ashuka, cyangwa umukobwa ati nitutaryamana sinzamenya ko unyizera, uzamenyeko ahubwo uwo muntu ashaka kukurimbura. naho akarimi ke kaba ari keza rwose. imigani 5:3-23, uyu munsi kwizerana bikwiye kugushingira ku byo mwibwira n'ibyo mutekereza kurenza ibyo mukora.

Kwizerana naho bihuriye n'Igikorwa, ahubwo bikomezwa no kwibwira kumwe, mu migambi, inzozi, ibyo mwemera n'ibindi. abantu babanza imibonano mpuzabitsina nk'Ikimenyetso cyo kwizerana bari mu mwijima kuko Satani ashaka kubarimbura. Imigani 7:1-27

Uyu munsi niba wifuza urugo rwiza ukwiye kurutegura UBANA N'Imana aho kwiruka inyuma yabo ushaka kuzaba nabo, niwiruka ushaka Imana, muri iyo nzira uzabonamo umufasha, nugwa azakubyutsa, nusubira inyuma azagusengera, azagushyigikira mukuzuza ibyo Imana ishaka ko ukora. aho kukubohera mubyo we yifuza.

Yesu agira ati nuko nimumenya ukuri niko kuzababatura: Uyu munsi ntukwiye kuba imbata y'Umuntu uwo wari we wese ahubwo ukwiye kuba Imbata ya Kristo hanyuma ugakorera abantu nkuziko azahembwa na Kristo. niba uri umugabo, umenye ko n'uba umugabo mwiza murugo ukarerera Imana neza Imana izaguhemba. niba uri umugore ugafasha neza umugabo wawe kuzuza inshingano Imana imuha Imana izaguhemba. Ibihembo bikuru bizahambwa abantu bitaye kuby'Imana aho kwita kubyabo. kuko Imana yo yita kubyacu cyane.

Pastor M.Gaudin

New Jerusalem Church

Contact: +250788329339

Email: pstgaudin@gmail.com